The only way to soften our hair is to condition it routinely. If at first you don't succeed, condition again.
Conditioning the hair is when you use a prouducts that softens the hair to sit on your hair for 15 minutes. Deep conditioning the hair is using the same or similar product for at least 20-30 minutes.
There are many ways to deep condition the hair:
1. Put conditioner on your hair. Cover hair with a water proof bag. Place an old tshirt or a towel on top and set it for at least 20 minutes. Rinse with cool or warm water.
2. Put conditioner on your hair. Sit under a hair steamer for 10-12 minutes. Rinse with warm or cool water. Try our hair steamer.
3. Overnight Deep Conditioner- See #1 but set sleep in it overnight and rinse in the morning.
*extra tip* if you clean the house or exercise while deep conditioning, the resultant heat formed will create a green house effect, making your locs extremely moisturized and lubricated. So get active.